Prove it to?

So everyone is out to prove something.  But many don't really know who they are trying to "Prove it to".
Who are you trying to impress?  A better question is why?

So here we go, well this is where I am going and you are welcome to come along this lil journey today...

Everyone seems to have something to prove, something that you want to show the world that you can do or that you can accomplish.  But we don't have anything to prove to anyone.  Ya I know some will differ with me, and that's OK.  We have to know why we are doing something for it to be effective.  We need to believe in our hearts that what we are doing we are doing for the right reason, and we need to know where we are going with it.  But most importantly we need, no we MUST believe that we can do it.  Not to prove anyone else right or wrong, but to prove to ourselves that we CAN.  If you don't believe that you can then you will never convince anyone else. 

What we tell ourselves, and what we think is what we will become.  If we constantly tell ourselves that we "can't", well then we never will.  So how will you change that?  You need to prove to yourself that you CAN.  You have to believe that you can, and you need to do it.  What is it?  Well that's up to you.  But you need to be able to see where you are going, where you want to get to.  Whether that is financially, emotionally, physically, it doesn't matter.  It is up to you to prove it to yourself first.  But you have to believe, you have to be able to see where you are going, you have to have a plan.

There are many accomplishments by others but they are not watching others do great things, they are DOING.  Are they busy worrying about what others are doing or saying?  Are they worried about trying to "Prove it" to others?  Probably not, they have set a goal for themselves and they are proving to themselves that they CAN.

YOU are the most important person to prove something to.  Look in the mirror who do you see?  The only one person that is looking back at you is you.  Prove it to yourself first, then the world will see what you have done.  But remember your life is yours and yours alone.  We cannot expect anything from anyone, but we should expect everything from ourselves.  We are the ones that make the decisions in our lives that can change our life every day.

Whatever it is that you are doing, do it to prove it to yourself first, then others will see what you have done. 

Remember you are the one, the one that CAN.